Terms of use.

Adults only

You must be at least 18 years old to use SharedYes. The service discusses adult relationships, sexual interests, and BDSM themes.

What SharedYes provides

SharedYes offers private self-reflection quizzes and an optional partner comparison. Results are conversation tools, not medical advice, a diagnosis, a compatibility verdict, or consent to any activity.

Your access

You can begin with anonymous access. Some recovery and notification features ask for an email address. You are responsible for keeping private result and invitation links secure and for using the service lawfully.

Partner comparisons

A partner comparison is designed to return mutual or supported reciprocal interests. It does not display either person's complete answer sheet. Do not pressure another person to participate or treat a match as permission to act.

Kink Rooms

A Kink Room compares multiple participants against one frozen result using identical answers only. Participants receive a private percentage and match-level label. A room owner may receive the exact percentage and a participant-approved alias, but never individual answers, question-level matches, categories, or participant match-level labels. A percentage is game language, not a relationship guarantee or consent.

Payments and refunds

SharedYes may offer a one-time purchase for a completed partner comparison. The purchase unlocks the complete shared result and its conversation tools for both participants. It is not a subscription and does not renew automatically.

Kink Room unlocks are separate. The displayed offer may include a permanent one-room unlock for up to 20 or 50 participants, or an automatically renewing monthly Kink Room Unlimited subscription that unlocks every room owned by the subscribed account while active. Unlimited refers to owned room unlocks, not unlimited participants in one room. The checkout page states the final price, currency, capacity, renewal terms, and cancellation details before payment.

The exact price, currency, included features, and any applicable tax are shown before purchase. Payment is handled through Stripe's secure checkout. SharedYes does not receive your full card number.

SharedYes may issue limited promo codes that unlock a specific completed comparison or Kink Room without payment. A code may have an expiration date, redemption limit, eligible unlock type, or other campaign restriction. Codes have no cash value and may be disabled when they are expired, exhausted, shared beyond their intended audience, or used abusively.

You may request a full refund within 14 days of purchase by emailing hello@sharedyes.com. Include the email used at checkout, but do not send card details or a private result link. Approved refunds are sent to the original payment method within five business days. Your bank may take longer to display the credit. A full refund removes paid access from the comparison. This policy does not limit rights provided by applicable law.

Creator reward

Eligible direct purchasers may submit one original public TikTok, Instagram Reel, or YouTube Short about their honest SharedYes experience. Purchases attributed to an affiliate or referral partner are not eligible for this campaign. A qualifying post with at least 500 genuine public views may receive 50% of the purchase amount back. The same qualifying post with at least 1,500 genuine public views may receive 100% back in total. Someone who already received 50% may submit the same post again after it reaches the higher milestone.

The post must be public when reviewed, belong to the claimant, follow the platform's rules, avoid misleading claims, and protect every other person's privacy. Purchased, automated, exchanged, or otherwise manipulated views are not eligible. SharedYes may request reasonable evidence, reject an ineligible claim, or pause the campaign if abuse or platform risk appears.

Creator rewards are returned to the original payment method after manual approval and are capped at the amount actually paid. One rewarded post is allowed per purchase. An approved creator reward does not remove access to the unlocked result. Processing and bank-display times may vary. Participation is optional, private quiz answers are never required, and creators are responsible for using any advertising or incentive disclosure required by law or the platform.

Availability and changes

We may change, suspend, or discontinue parts of the service. We work to keep saved sessions and private links available, but uninterrupted access is not guaranteed. Material changes to these terms will be reflected on this page.

Contact

Questions about these terms can be sent to hello@sharedyes.com.